Do I need a corsage for my date?

The reason you need a corsage and boutonniere for prom

I see this question a lot lately..
this question ranks right up there with:

Do we have to go somewhere nice for dinner?
Do I have to get dressed up? 
Do I really need to use good manners? 
(Do I have to go on?..) 

I can tell you the history behind the traditional exchange
of corsages and boutonnieres, and although interesting,
some of the reasons behind the tradition aren't relevant
to today's prom.. 
For instance, this fun fact from 
the Etiquette School of Ohio (Read the entire article here) 
"This tradition comes from a time period, long ago, when flowers were worn to make one smell heavenly while dancing with a partner. Frequent showers, expensive perfumes, and air conditioning were rare if available at all."
Well, I'm pretty sure we all take frequent showers now,
so why should you still continue the tradition? 

The reason you need a corsage and boutonniere for prom
Let me ask YOU a couple questions.
Do you want to have a good time with your date at prom?
nothing worse than a disappointed pouting date giving you the silent treatment- or the 'everyone else has one except my date' awkwardness.

Do you want your date to feel valued and special?

You've executed the perfect promposal, planned the entire evening from the pre-prom photo party to the after party,.. Don't leave out that special little gift just for your date. 
That small cluster of fragrant flowers that says..
 "I'm glad you're going to prom with me" 


Designer Spotlight- Mike Hollenbeck AIFD

 Designer Spotlight Series interview with Mike Hollenbeck AIFD

Mike has been in the floral industry for more than 30 years and currently owns and operates Floral Artistry LLC in Lewiston, Idaho.  As a Freelance designer he enjoys creating, sharing and teaching with some of the best designers in the world.  
 For the past five years he has had the privilege of helping create the magic of The Rose Bowl Parade and creating floral displays at the Los Angeles County Fair.   He has served as president of the NWAIFD chapter, the National Board of Directors for AIFD, the finance and career development committees, Also he was the stage manager for Symposium “Imagine” 2011, and was the lead designer for the lobby décor at “Caliente” in Miami 2012, and co-presented Gender Factor, a main stage program at Symposium in Chicago 20014. 

 Designer Spotlight Series interview with Mike Hollenbeck AIFD

How did you get into the floral industry  (what were you doing prior)? Was there a defining point along the way that shaped you as a designer?
I started delivering flowers in the right before Easter my senior year of high school.  I then joined the USMC.  While attended college I continued as transportation director part time.  One day the head (only) designer went on a walk about.  The owner could not find any trained help.  I offered to learn after hours if he was willing to teach.  In addition to his excellent mentorship, I attended every education program at the wholesale houses that I could.  I read and tried to duplicate the designs in every floral publication I could lay my hands on. That was the beginning of my floral design career. 
The first defining point that shaped me as a designer happened at a program in Spokane WA. at Spokane Community College.  There were 3 designer presenting panel style.  I remember one designer that could braid, twist and manipulate foliage into the most amazing geometrical shapes.  His tropical creations were the most amazing things I had ever seen in person.  I sat in the audience and visualized being on stage presenting floral art one day.  I attended Phil Rulloda's advance class of floral design and with his encouragement I have realized that dream.  He has since become a friend and mentor to this day. 
The second defining point quite simply was becoming AIFD.  It is difficult for those outside the organization to understand the relationships that becomes more like family; people with the same passion for expressing beauty in the world through the expression of floral design.
The third defining point was meeting and working with Jim Hynd AIFD.  His guidance and leadership while working at the Fiesta Parade Float Co.  for the Rose Bowl Parade and at the L.A. County Fair have helped me refine my design and management skills.

 Designer Spotlight Series interview with Mike Hollenbeck AIFD

 Designer Spotlight Series interview with Mike Hollenbeck AIFD
What has been the best advice you’ve been given?
The best advice I have been given was actually in 8th grade.  A teacher told the class that if you find something that you are good at and that you enjoy doing, and someone is willing to pay you, then you will most likely find success.  There are hundreds of men and women at the paper mill in our valley. The make a good living however, they hate their job and most likely live an unhappy life.  Find your gift, then give it away. Do what you love!!!

What advice would you give to someone looking at the floral industry as a career choice? 
The advice I most often give someone looking at the floral industry as a career is …. are you crazy????  Seriously, if you want to work endless hours, spend 8 to15 hours on your feet,  eat cold hamburgers, drink warm sodas, work most holidays and…. enjoy every second of everyday sharing the passion of human emotion, then this is the job is for you!  I can think of no other more intrinsically rewarding occupation in the world. 

 Tell us about your design process. Do you visualize a concept first, or does the concept come together as
You work on it?
My design process is based entirely on emotion. I let the intrinsic nature of my gift guide my process.  Stating that, conceptualization depends on the occasion.  Weddings require me to see through the eyes of the bride.  Sympathy designs require me to honor the deceased through the eyes of their loved ones left behind.  I create the concept with the ideas and feeling of my clients, then add passion, creativity and artistry.
 Designer Spotlight Series interview with Mike Hollenbeck AIFD

 Designer Spotlight Series interview with Mike Hollenbeck AIFD

How do you recharge creatively?  What is your  ‘go-to’ place or source of inspiration outside the floral world?
 I have several hobbies and interests outside the floral world that recharge my creativity.  My first passion is karate. I am a 3rd degree black belt instructor, self-defense and MMA coach.  I also officiate sports.  I umpire ASA softball at the local, regional and national level.  I just completed my 3rd national fast pitch tournament.  I also referee high school basketball, football and softball. 

 How has your work evolved since you began in the industry?  
I stay current on all the new trends and techniques.  I always look for better more efficient ways of designing floral bouquets and flowers to wear.  I think that a professional floral designer should consider his or her work as continuously evolving.  I always look for new and creative ways to implement our design styles.  For example, I use cold glue to add flowers to most all my corsage work.  We used to wire and tape everything.  With all the choices our customers have I want Floral Artistry to be on the cutting edge, a leader in style and floral fashion.  Education is the key.  Attend seminars, workshops, AIFD National and Regional symposiums, go to programs at your local wholesaler, attend classes at one of the many AIFD education partners.  There are many chances to continue growing….. I think that once one thinks he has learned everything, at that point he knows nothing.

What new corsage trends do you see emerging  in your area, and which ones are on the way out ?  
Locally at Floral Artistry we have had great success with the creation of  floral jewelry and accessories not just corsages and boutonnieres.  The more unique the better.  We have great success with all the Fitz Products from wristlets to sparkles and lights.  Multiple items are on the prom/homecoming menu.  We offer floral crowns and hair pieces to accessorize the dress.  This is a hot trend!!
P.S. To all the floral designers that read this…please burn all your underwear elastic wristlets.  I discontinued them 6 years ago along with tulle, fake leaves and BB.  Just my humble opinion no offense intended.  Strive to stay current.  You do not wear the same clothes that you had 20+ years ago, so do not expect your clients to want the same old corsages that their mothers bought when they were in high school.

 Designer Spotlight Series interview with Mike Hollenbeck AIFD

In the next few months many orders will be placed  for Homecoming, Winter Formals and  of course, Prom.  Many times they are placed by customers who have never been inside a flower shop before, much less order a corsage or boutonniere…
What do you think is a common  misconception  these customers have about their floral piece and/or their florist?
One of the most common misconception that customers have about ordering their floral piece is that we just go into the back room and pull out a corsage like making a fast food hamburger.  We need to help the consumer understand that each and every order is custom made and unique.  It takes time, education, and creative talent.  We are professionals, trust our advice on colors and styles.  

 How about a common misconception  florists have about these new customers?
I think a common misconception a florist has about new customers is that they do not know very much about what they are looking for.  The new generations is tech savvy.  They are educated and on trend.  Do not assume they want what their mom wanted.  Do not assume they do not have money.  Teenagers spend over 3 billion dollars a year on prom/homecoming etc.  Take your share by being visual on social media.  Educate your shop on how to do this. Fitz offers free online webinars on how to improve your sales and design techniques.  Take advantage of these opportunities.

 Designer Spotlight Series interview with Mike Hollenbeck AIFD

 Designer Spotlight Series interview with Mike Hollenbeck AIFD

Favorite flower  variety or new product you’re obsessed with right now? 
I like designing with color and texture so I like Floragene carnations, fuzzy green dianthus and hydrangea for basing.  I also love the vast selection of orchids and gladiolus that are available on the market right now. 

If you were asked to provide a floral accessory to be worn  on the red carpet, what would it be? (and who would wear it?)
I'm going to pass on this question…. I live in the real would, so I would provide anything to anybody that wanted and appreciated my artistic floral creations.  Money talks…. :)
Final thoughts for our readers?
If you want to contact me for any reason, feel free to email me.  My email is or 
I would love to hear from you.  

Mike Hollenbeck
Floral Artistry
1008 Main St.
ID 83501

Many thanks to Mike for being a part of the Designer Spotlight Series and sharing all his amazing designs!
If you have a question or just want to say hello, please comment below.


A few years ago I came across this wonderfully funny piece written by a fellow florist and friend Heather- I tracked her down (the miracles of modern technology) 
and she agreed to allow me to share it with all of you! 
So please enjoy!
 (and breathe.. Prom season is almost over!)

I. Hate. Prom
There, I said it. Man, that feels good! I HATE PROM, I HATE PROM, I HATE PROM.
 (Please know this is tongue and cheek, for the most part I really do enjoy creating little fashionable works of art for the kids to wear...
but, it's 10pm and I've got a nose full of glitter...)

This is a post dedicated to all the reasons why I
 (and maybe even you) 
hate prom...

Ah-hem, drum roll, please!

 Worse than bridezillas these mini-divas come in rocking their designer shoes and fresh manicures. They will spend more in one night than I spent on my entire wedding but, only $24.95 for a corsage and it better be perfect.

-Last minute dates/I forgot"ters".
Oh, I can't wait for the phone to start ringing at 2:45 tomorrow afternoon with the "I forgot the flowers." or "I just got a date" spiel. Inevitably it's the mom's fault, or the girlfriend, or the dog...whatever. All I know is that I'm expected to churn out a corsage in 5 minutes and, it better be perfect.

-Change of date.
The MOST annoying! Prom-goers trade dates more than a room of swingers. And, I get the call, Friday evening. Never fails. "I have a new date! Can you change my order?" and OH! "It better be perfect."

- Loss of date.
 Almost as annoying as change of date but, I can always pawn off these leftovers on a "change of date" or a "last minute date" which is always a plus.

Can't forget these wonders of the world! These girls will sit for an hour pondering over which exact shade of ribbon will match the glitter in their crown AND dress at the same time. They will spend more time on this decision than they will signing the mortgage on their first home. Bet me. Oh, and, of course, it better be perfect.

-The anti-prom-goers.
These kids are truly a joy (nightmare?). They hate prom but, their date is making them go. They hate flowers but, their date is making them wear a corsage/boutonnière. They hate life but, alas, the show must go on. OH, and, above anything MUST read their mind AND it BETTER be perfect.

I hope you smile...and I just keep telling myself that by this time will all be OVER!